Legal Law

In search of friendly relationships

Human civilization implies: marriage, family life, friends and social life.

A friend is defined as “trying to get the best of you.”

We need relatives who are true friends.

We need colleagues, we call everyone friends, who are true friends.

Colleagues

Our colleagues join us during game time,

We share: entertainment, workload, tasks,

And social problems, which we do not talk about with parents.

They can also attract us to unhealthy entertainment: drugs, drinks, and gambling.

We usually give in

Live in conformity.

Our colleagues may not bring out the best in us, but we still need them.

Man is a social animal.

Let’s learn to talk with our colleagues and not about our colleagues.

So socializing would be a pure conversation,

An exchange of opinions, without any comment on the others.

We spend time with our colleagues and consider them our friends.

All colleagues, they may not be our true friends.

Fathers

Parents are natural friends that God has given them in childhood.

It is our supporters who keep us from going astray.

Our parents want us to excel in studies, games, and other extracurricular activities.

When there is a lot of competition, they can take an even unethical approach, to earn us laurels.

This is not a friendly act, as it does not bring out the best in us.

Encouraging devilish traits (egotism and excessive desire for sensual pleasures) is not a friendly act,

Although it gives, a short-term pleasure.

* Ethan Couch, the ‘Affluenza’ defendant, violated his terms of probation.

Her mother didn’t act like her friend

For a short-term profit, she could get him into more trouble.

Brothers

Siblings must be good friends

But it may not be so.

Invariably in childhood, the younger brother respects and follows the older brother.

In adolescence, there may be ego conflicts,

And after marriage, the siblings’ friendship largely depends on the comfort level of their spouses with each other.

Siblings should strive to be friends.

Kids

In old age, children are / should be the best friends of aging parents.

In eastern societies, the concept of joint families is still in vogue.

The concept of “Old Age Homes” is still in its infancy.

Oriental parents have yet to learn to be self-reliant, emotionally, socially, and financially, in old age.

Caring for elderly parents is a unique concept, only within the human species.

Sustaining the concept, in the current age, is not so easy.

But it is a good tradition and it must continue.

However, parents should plan to live independently, in old age.

And get rid of your expectations of children.

If you receive love, respect, and support from children, consider it a God-given bonus.

Spouse

Your spouse has to be your best friend!

A person shares most of his life with his spouse.

They have common goals: raising children, planning their careers, and the home of their dreams.

All other relatives (parents, siblings, and married children) are invariably part of the extended family.

Spouses should encourage the development of godly traits between them.

Spouses should help each other to care for elderly parents and in-laws.

Be your own friend

We must learn to be friends with ourselves.

A person in depression, most of the time, has to instill the art of analyzing the assets and liabilities of life to have a balanced vision.

There may be a biased relationship, with a relationship,

But we have to consider a holistic approach.

We have multiple relationships to manage:

Parents, siblings, spouse, children, and extended family members.

* If there is a degenerate relationship with the spouse,

But ‘all right’ with the others,

It requires a balanced approach in life.

An impulsive reaction can be dangerous for harmony in the family.

A spouse as a friend is God’s greatest blessing in a relationship.

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