How to get your girl back after a breakup
While you and your girlfriend were together, you probably emailed or texted each other many times throughout the day. Now that you’re separated, you don’t want to bombard her with messages all day and night. This will only push her further away. But you could send a friendly text or email once a week.
When you send that text or email once a week, keep it casual. Don’t bring up the past or bring up old arguments. Maybe he’ll mention something about one of his friends or a new movie or a new song. This will likely throw her off, as she will be expecting a lot of drama and pleading to get back together.
While she wonders about this, just keep up the weekly friendly messages. Talk to her like you did when you first met her. Let your personality that she was attracted to in the first place shine through. This could also bring back good memories and she can start to communicate.
On her birthday or a holiday, you can send her a small gift or card. This will keep you on her mind and she will appreciate it more since you are not being overly aggressive or overwhelming her.
While it can sometimes be a good idea to start dating other people to get their attention, in some cases it can backfire on you. If you’re really trying to win her back, you definitely don’t want to sleep with someone else. This could really ruin any of your chances of getting your girlfriend back and it just wouldn’t be worth it. Sleeping with someone else is something you can’t take back or change once it’s happened.
Instead of dating someone else, you could just date a crowd. She would still see you have a good time, but you don’t want her to see you hanging on another woman. Watching them have a fun time she will remind you of when you were still together and had a lot of fun hanging out together. This might pique her interest, especially if she’s been nice in her weekly communications.
Try the tips I have mentioned and you may just have a chance to reconcile with your girlfriend. The main thing is to be mature and think the situation through. Don’t let your emotions take control or you could push her further away. Be the person he fell in love with and let him see it, without being pushy. This may be all it takes to get your girlfriend back. Good luck!