How to know if a woman is attracted: the 5 signs

Maybe it’s the waitress at the local café. Or maybe it’s a coworker or a classmate or even the friend you’ve always secretly fallen in love with. Regardless of who it is, if you like it, you want to know if the feeling is mutual.

Luckily for you, all women give signals when they are attracted. Most guys never pick up on these signals. If you don’t know what you’re looking for, you could easily miss these secret signs too. And you probably already have. You’ve probably let countless women slip through your fingers in the past because you couldn’t see the signs.

But you will never make that mistake again. By knowing the 5 most common but least understood signs of female attraction, you will be prepared to win the girl. Just look for 1 of these 5 signals and then make your move. It’s as simple as that!

1.) Says your name a lot in conversation.

If you meet a woman who says your name in conversation, it is very likely that she has feelings for you. When someone feels something for another person, the sound of that person’s name gives them a bit of excitement. (Think of the kids in the schoolyard writing the name of the person they like in their notebooks!) While adults don’t jump around the playground and sing the name of the person they like, they subconsciously do so. they always say they can. So if she says your name a lot, chances are she will be attracted to you.

2.) She fiddles with her hair

When a woman plays with her hair, it often means that she is aroused. It is a reflex of readiness: female primates prepare for males before mating. (If you want proof, go to the local zoo!) So if you see a woman stroking her hair while talking to you, it means that you are probably piquing her interests.

3.) First break eye contact

Poets say that the eyes are the windows to the soul. Well, your eyes are also a window to your feelings. It is a well known fact that eye contact signifies trust. And trust is nothing but comfort in one’s state. So, for example, if you were training some new entry-level employees at your job, then you would probably feel very confident about keeping good care with all of them. However, if you were in business with your boss’s boss, you probably wouldn’t be as comfortable maintaining strong eye contact (since your boss’s boss has a higher status). Similarly, if you first notice a woman continually breaking eye contact, she is probably nervous about your attraction to you.

4.) You get carried away by emotion sometimes around you.

A major misconception that most men make about women is that they need to “like” you to be attracted. Think of all the bad guys who do wonders with women! Now, you don’t need to become a “bad boy” just to attract women; however, you should not be discouraged if a woman is not always in a good mood around you. In fact, it’s better if it isn’t! A woman would never waste her emotions on a boy she doesn’t like. So if he gets frustrated with you sometimes or even mad at you, that’s a good thing.

5.) Talk about yourself in the future.

Here is a very subtle, but very powerful signal of attraction that women emit. If a woman is interested in you, she will comment on seeing you in the future. It is important to note that none of these signs will be overt; instead, they’ll be light-hearted little comments like “Are you going to event x, y, z next week?” If a woman asks such questions, it is a telltale sign that you are on her mind.