How to make women like you
If you want to go from idiot to Casanova, you have to prepare yourself for hard work and a steep learning curve. But if you see it through… boy, is it worth it? Knowing how to please women is definitely an art, an all-encompassing art that could never be adequately covered in a single article. However, I will give an overview of some tips that will make you a better man overnight.
STEP 1 — Understand that you must maximize your life
When I was 21 years old, an ex-girlfriend gave me a huge revelation. We were talking about sexual attraction, and she said, “You know, women like a good body on a man just as much as men on women.”
That was a true revelation. It is not a joke. Before that, I had always taken my appearance for granted. Maybe it had something to do with media conditioning, which never portrayed women as really aggressively pursuing sex (Sex and the City was actually a pioneer in that regard).
Yes people, women are also attracted to animals. If you want to know the number one rule of how to please women, it is to make the most of what you have. Sure, you may not have been born looking like George Clooney, but that doesn’t stop you from maximizing what you have. And I firmly believe that yes everybody making the most of what we had, then we would automatically give off an attractive vibe.
Go to a stylist and get a proper haircut. Educate yourself on fashion and get a select wardrobe of premium clothing instead of buying in bulk at the local discount store. Exchange your watch for a nicer model. Discover the joy of loafers over sneakers. And most importantly, exercise like your life depends on it. Build a body fit for a Greek god, making sure you look like a champion in a baggy t-shirt. You want women to look at you and wish their claws were deep in that chest.
STEP 2 — The days of the metrosexual are over — long live the alpha male!
Face it: women want real men.
The days of the metrosexual are gone, thank God. Don’t even think about plucking your eyebrows, twenty different forms of skin care, or worst of all, being a serial apologist. I think this is one of the old secrets of how to please women.
Metrosexuals get trampled. Metrosexuals are human rugs. The alpha male does not tolerate games and is strong-minded enough not to give in when the going gets tough. You have to be as strong mentally as you are physically. He thinks of learning a martial art to reflect this.
Just don’t be a pushover. Women don’t want a pushover. Whether we like it or not, the politically incorrect model is back. Women don’t want to be with someone they feel like they could dominate. Be prepared to stand your ground if you feel you are right when an argument occurs.
And believe me. If you have developed the alpha male aura, women will notice it, and be attracted to it, from a hundred yards away.
STEP 3 — Learn the art of body language
I truly believe this is the most important psychological skill you can learn.
After all, many attempts at seduction fail when the conversation between two strangers dies. Now, a lot of people will say that it’s because the two guys weren’t compatible. That’s nonsense: it’s always possible to create a good relationship, even with a complete stranger with whom you apparently have nothing in common.
Body language is a great way to break the ice and put your mind at ease. If you can tell that the lady is interested (or receptive) to you, then that should give you the little ego trip you need to make sure the conversation sticks. Study body language a lot, because you have no idea how much it can help you. It is the number one weapon in any master seducer’s arsenal.
Summary
I have barely scratched the tip of the iceberg when it comes to understanding how to please women. But I hope I have given you some thoughts and ideas, and you can even start applying yourself. Maximizing yourself is primarily a physical quest; Honoring your alpha male traits is primarily a mental quest; and learning body language is a combination of the two. If you can even improve one of those areas, you will already be a much better seducer than you were before reading this article.