Save your marriage for the sake of children: is it worth it?

Incompatibilities, infidelities, and physical and emotional insufficiencies are perhaps some of the many reasons why marriages break up. If you are reading this, perhaps you too are going through a troubled marriage and feel that a breakup is imminent. You don’t want to save your marriage for anything else but for the sake of your children. These are reasons enough to stick to a loveless marriage.

While this is a noble gesture that confirms your spirit of selflessness and selflessness, some issues need your consideration if you want to save your marriage for the sake of the children. This means that you would have left your spouse, if only the children were not there, since children from a broken home suffer, and you know it more than anyone.

Before you sit down to make a final decision about whether or not to save your marriage, for the sake of the children, it is necessary to do some soul-searching about your feelings for each other. Are you still in love with your husband? If he has given up, is it because he is in love with another woman or does he just want to get rid of you? Make a frank and impartial analysis of the existing situation, before taking steps to save your marriage for the sake of the children. Here are some suggestions:

o Even if you succeed in saving your marriage for now and delaying your husband’s decision to divorce, how long do you think you can continue a loveless existence?

o Have you tried to talk about it with your children? If the children are very clear about their intentions to stay with the father, you may need to think about sharing ways with the family, rather than finding ways to save your marriage.

o You need financial strength to stay away and manage the children as a single parent. If your income together with your ex-husband’s money can ensure a decent life for you and your children, there is little point in making efforts to change your husband’s decision and save your marriage.

o No woman likes to leave a happy marriage. Obviously, things are not perfect in their relationship, which has caused this conflict of interest. Think well whether such problems can be solved, if not completely, but at least up to delivery standards. If you are sure that you can live with such half measures, for the sake of the children, then you should go ahead and take steps to win back as much as possible and save your marriage.