The best way to ask single women out on a date
The way you ask a single woman out on a date can make a big difference in whether or not she accepts. Also, it is very important that you make sure beforehand that she will accept your invitation to go out on a date.
Whatever you do, don’t expect a “no” for an answer before you ask her out. This can backfire on you by showing the woman your lack of confidence with women. If you expect rejection, you can create a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Let me give you some examples of the wrong way to ask single women out on dates. These negatively worded questions can cause you to fail when trying to get a date:
- I know you’re probably busy on Friday night, but if you’re not busy, would you like to go out with me?
- I guess you won’t be free to have lunch with me on Friday, right?
- You don’t want to meet me for a drink Thursday after work, do you?
Can you see how negative these questions are? They are already programmed for a “no” response. Also, she might think you’ve already asked someone else out and been shot down, so now you’re taking your chance on her. For her to think this, even if it’s not true, puts you in a bad position.
It’s best to make it easy for the woman you’re asking out to accept your date invitation. Make it easy for them to say “yes.” Also, think positive when you ask her out. She thinks she’s going to agree and there’s no way she’s going to say “no”.
In my opinion, this is the best way to ask a woman out on a date:
- “My friends have been raving about a new Italian restaurant that serves really great food. I’ve never been there. Would you like to try it with me?” (This doesn’t really have to be the truth, just make it up to get a date.)
- There’s a fine symphony/play coming to town in a couple of weeks. This sounds like a really fun thing to attend. Would you like to join me?
- Some of my friends are going to the beach this weekend to hang out and have fun. They have asked me to accompany them. I know it would be so much fun. Would you like to come with me?
I’m sure you get the idea now. These are direct questions and not pressured to make an appointment. They sound so much better than the negative examples I gave you so don’t use them to ask for a date. You do not agree?
I hope this tip helps you get more dates and happy hunting!