What keeps a man faithful
Many women wonder why their man or ex-man cheated on them. Especially when they put their heart and soul into a relationship only to feel empty and alone in the end. In turn, it makes them ask that infamous question: “What keeps a man faithful?” To answer that question… a man stays true to a man.
A very good friend of mine was dating this guy and she was totally devoted to this man. No matter what she decided, she put him and his feelings first; his life revolved around him. She was always considerate and treated him like a king. She gave her all and expected the same in return. In the end, she got nothing in return but a broken heart and a massive headache. She not only did he cheat on her with another woman, but he cheated on her with several different women. She called me on the phone and asked “why?” “Why can’t men be faithful?” “What can I do to keep a man faithful? What am I doing wrong?” The biggest mistake a woman can make is to blame herself when her man strays.
Physiologically, he begins to feel like it was his fault and thinks about things that he feels he could have done differently. Now, she just justified and accepted the error in her ways. To put it bluntly, no matter how good a woman is to a man, no matter how well she takes care of a man, a man will still do what a man is going to do.
Only a man can keep a man faithful, not a woman and her ways. A man must possess certain traits to be faithful. But, before he can care about these traits, he must respect a woman and then respect himself. A man must have integrity, loyalty and courage. He must not only possess these traits, but he must also apply these traits. A man with integrity is a truthful man. First, he knows that he must be true to himself before he can be true to others. He will be sincere about relationships and he knows what he wants from a relationship and what he is willing to give. If a man is not sure, he must be allowed his space so that he can seek integrity and learn the truth.
A man with loyalty is a man who is faithful. He will stand by his wife through thick and thin; he is committed to the relationship to the end. He will never leave her in any way. No matter how bad it gets, he will never stray. If a man is not loyal, you have to give him his space so that he can become faithful and develop loyalty.
Most importantly, a man with courage is a man who has everything. Courage carries a man from childhood to manhood and gives him masculinity. A courageous man will apply these traits and others to make a relationship work. A man without courage is not a man; he is a boy hoping to become a man. You have to leave him his space and let him grow and become a man.
Some men simply do not possess these traits. It doesn’t mean they never will. They will when and if they want. The same goes for a man who has these traits and more, but he doesn’t apply them. When a man possesses and applies all of these traits to a relationship, only then does he become faithful. Simply put… only a man can keep a man faithful.