Don’t be discouraged by the breakup – you can get your ex back and do better than before!

As with most things in life, relationships either work or they don’t. Sometimes it’s because the two people involved just don’t freeze up and decide to call it quits. Other times, even though the two people love each other, the relationship still falls apart. If you fall into the latter category, then take heart, because it is possible to get your ex back.

Relationships are not good and last a long time on their own, you have to try hard to make it happy for the couple involved. Yes, you are individuals, but you have to work together all the time for a relationship to work well.

If you really want to get your ex back, then there are a few things you need to do. Sit down and think hard about your time together. Did you communicate all the time? Also, was there an appropriate give and take between you and your ex? If you answered no to both, then it’s time to fix them, if you want a chance to get back together.

Communication is vital in a relationship. Even though they know each other very well and love each other deeply, there are times when they HAVE to talk about things. This is especially true when it comes to something that makes them feel unhappy or angry.

Unless you’re a mind reader, there’s no way you’ll know if your partner isn’t happy if you don’t talk about it. If the problem is brought up right away, then it can be discussed and fixed right away, without starting an argument. Make a firm decision to talk about problems all the time. If your ex finds out that you are willing to do this, you could get your ex back.

If all the give and take in the relationship came from your ex, then it’s no wonder your ex broke up with you. Everything was in your favor in the relationship, and this probably made your ex feel bad. You probably made your ex feel like nothing he said or did was important enough: he had to have it your way or not have it.

Get in touch with your ex and tell him that you are more than willing to commit and communicate in the future, all the time. Tell him that you love him too much and you don’t want to spend your life without him. If it is a fifty/fifty relationship that will make you happy, then it will be so. Let your ex ponder this and if he agrees, you could get your ex back.