Ex boyfriend: ignore him, drive him crazy, then get him back fast

Before you start thinking about your ex boyfriend, let’s focus on someone much more important. YOU. It’s time for you to realize your true value, develop your confidence, become the person desired by others and build yourself a great life away from the relationship with your ex boyfriend. As soon as you accept that you can let your ex boyfriend go, you will have taken the first step in getting him back.

You’re probably at a pretty low point and maybe you feel like you can’t get up from here, you couldn’t be more wrong. Become the most important person in your life and others will follow.

Consider this for a moment; men want what they cannot have and value what they have to work for, what is scarce and what everyone wants. Making yourself popular with others and desired by others will make your ex boyfriend fight to get back with you.

So rule number 1 is to make yourself slim. Cut off all contact with him, no texts or emails, nothing. If there are major issues to resolve, ask a close friend to contact you, ask your friend not to comment more than is necessary to complete the business.

Next, give yourself a makeover, nothing drastic or expensive, maybe a change of hairstyle, some new clothes, and get out of the house. If it’s been a while since you’ve done this and you’re feeling a bit intimidated, throw on a pair of heels, take a deep breath, and go for it.

This is your new life that you are planning make the most of it.

Spending time with friends and making new friends, doing things that you really enjoy will revitalize you, walk tall and smile, your coolness factor will instantly increase. You have to show your ex boyfriend that you can enjoy life without him, that you are an independent, self-confident and happy person (although deep down you are still suffering).

The psychological effect this will have on your ex boyfriend will be amazing, suddenly you’re pushing all the right buttons that men don’t really know are there but you do and it’s having the desired effect.

When he makes contact, don’t jump straight back, be friendly and nice, but a little distant. If he asks you out, make up the excuse that you’ll be busy for the next few days, but you’ll call him. Now you are driving him crazy and again increasing your desire.

When you’re ready, send him a short message asking how he’s doing and let him contact you to suggest a date. Make your first date a chance to “get to know each other” all over again. Be observant and listen carefully to what he has to say. It’s decision time for you as he wants to get back together but is this what you really want?

You have put yourself in a very powerful position, now you can decide your own destiny. Do you want to get on with your great new life or is your passion for your ex boyfriend as strong as ever?

If you do get back together, set your own terms, as you don’t want the relationship to fail a second time.

I would like to offer one final piece of advice, during your breakup never make any adverse comments to others, even best friends, about your ex boyfriend, do not criticize him in any way, this is a mistake that can come back and bite you. One day.

I wish you much success in whatever path you choose.

Thank you for taking the time to read this article. I sincerely hope that I have provided you with the help you were looking for. I would like to recommend that you also take a look at the advice given by a true expert in this field, Matt Houston, I have included a brief penciled photo of the gentleman below.