My opinion on sex and love
Sex is not the perfect way to express your love: rather it is the perfect way to express the feelings of love. It is perfect between a husband and a wife, a boy and a girl. It is not just a physical activity, but rather a spiritual integration of two souls. It joins the spirit of the people involved. Sex is not love and love is not sex. Many tend to confuse the difference between sex and love. Most people do not perceive that there is a difference between them. In this note I will give my point of view on why these things are different from each other.
Let’s start with sex. It’s something that doesn’t usually sink real feelings, a real relationship, or even a commitment. There are few people looking to enjoy one night stands. Often many have a ‘friend with benefits’, that’s what I would put in the sex category. There are never real or deep feelings; it is just about enjoying the act. Usually when people are just looking to have sex, there’s very little opposite play and intimacy afterwards, the hugging and cuddling, well that doesn’t happen often.
Many people are happy having sex just for pleasure, never caring about the emotional circumstance of being in love. Often some go from partner to partner because that is all they are looking for, that is, the instant thrill and release in the pleasure of sex. I am one of those who have never been able to do this. I could never jump into a one-night stand and I could never have just a “friend with benefits.” These parts are the values I have about making love. Also, to me, it means more that my friend is in love with me, and sex is not just about enjoying. This is where making love comes into play.
When two people are in love and bond together, they care a lot about making their partner feel wanted and cared for. When an individual is in love, he makes love with her partner, he gives her all her needs, not just sexually. They will take their time having sex and making their lover happy. They are careful with all the wants and needs of their partner. They get more pleasure from them tolerable than they themselves.
Many times, they don’t always need to be happy while making love. Making love between a couple in love is usually intimate and slow. After making love, many people who love each other will hug and hug their lover as a deeper form of close affinity. It also brings lovers closer together and they become more deeply interconnected in that soulful bond.
What is most essential to you in marriage?
Love, sex or nothing…