The truth about fetishes
When you look beyond the world of “classic sex”, there is a completely different world of fetishes. Fetishes are defined as an obsession with a specific act or feeling that generates arousal. These come in many forms. Some are basic, like foot or hand fetishes, while others involve intense role-play. These are the most reserved types of fetishes. They involve slavery, domination and / or nurturing by a person towards the person who has the fetish.
Bondage is one of the most active fetishes. Many couples enjoy light bondage in their home during sex. This involves tying one or both hands and / or feet to a bed post or bending the blind to a person. The idea behind slavery is that one person has partial or full control of the other. There is a great deal of excitement from being in full control or having a lack of control. Some people can play both the submissive and the dominant roles, while others only experience arousal with one role or the other. There are other people who like to be completely bound, gagged, and possibly even tortured. While the fetish world is most often portrayed as men dominated by female lovers, there are also women who enjoy this particular fetish.
Domination fetishes involve two roles and can incorporate other fetishes. Acts of slavery are considered domination; however, the role play can be done with teacher / student, parent / child, or boss / employee scenarios. Generally, during these sessions, the “servant” will perform the “duties” that are directed. Usually an “incentive” is included, such as spanking, gagging, or other forms of mild torture. The couple can perform fetish scenarios at home, but most go to fetish dungeons to satisfy their need for arousal. Fetish domains can be found online and their location is revealed to the customer when an appointment is confirmed. There is no sex involved when a person chooses to visit one of these facilities; the acts are strictly for arousal purposes. Some also specialize in certain types of lovers (Asian, plus size, etc.) and offer unique styles of torture: electric current, mummification, etc.
Breeding fetishes are drastically different from bondage and domination fetishes. These are usually centralized around the idea of reconnecting with a estranged parent or lover. Some of these involve a person as a “horse” or other animal while the couple. Another common parenting fetish involves a person acting as a parent to another person who wears diapers, simulates breastfeeding, and is cared for.
Enjoying a type of fetish does not make a person “weird” or some kind of “freak.” If anything, identify those people who are comfortable enough with their sexuality and what turns them on to embrace a different kind of sexual stimulation.