What Sherry Argov Doesn’t Know About Making Him Propose
sherry argov, New York Times bestselling author of “Why Men Marry Bitches” and “Why Men Love Bitches,” she obviously knows a lot about men, or at least her readers like what she has to say enough to to make her a best-selling author. While you can certainly read her books and get some answers, do you really want to resort to being a “bitch” to get him to propose? She is very honest in the titles of her books and says “Why Men Marry Bitches: A Woman’s Guide to Winning Her Man’s Heart”.
Note the keywords you use: “A Woman’s Guide.”
Answer this: who is better equipped to tell you how to win YOUR man’s heart, a woman, or a man? While there are definitely women in the world who will show you “how to please your man” as evidenced by the many raunchy videos on the internet, getting him to propose is a whole different way.
Believe it or not, when it comes to marriage, a man is not governed by his sexual organs. Sex and marriage are not in the same bucket for a man. Yes, sex comes with marriage, but it’s not the reason he’s getting married. The reasons a man gets married are much more complicated than that and will vary with the man, but for most, it’s because his “hunches” tell him “she’s the one.”
Getting him to that point won’t work if you try to be a “bitch” or try to manipulate him. Coercing or cajoling will not work either and will end up with him not only resenting you, but also pulling away. A man’s gut instincts have served him well for a long time. His gut instincts don’t pass through his brain to be analyzed like a woman’s intuition does, they are integrated into his entire being. This is how he survived as a “hunter” and survived the wars throughout the centuries. When his “gut instincts” kick in, he automatically responds, period.
Authors beloved by the publishing industry because of high book sales are one thing. But anyone can claim “expert” status, write a book these days and get it published on Amazon. Who would you turn to for advice on how to “win” her heart, expert or not, men with hearts or a woman of unknown marital status?
What does your “woman’s intuition” tell you? Follow it safe. Just like a man and his “gut instincts”, following your woman’s intuition will never lead you astray.