Your life is not yours if you always care what others think

Be who you are and say what you feel, because people with brains don’t make a difference and people who matter wouldn’t care. The vast majority are others. Their considerations are someone else’s assumptions, their lives a mimicry, their interests a date.

Your time is restricted, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Extraordinary spirits have always experienced fierce resistance from unremarkable personalities. The average brain is not equipped to understand one that will not bow aimlessly to common biases and choose to communicate its conclusions boldly and honestly.

Try not to stress over who doesn’t care about you, who has more, or who is doing what. Have confidence in yourself and there will come a day when others will have no real choice but to accept with you.

Try not to waste your energy trying to teach or change feelings; go over, under, through, and the conclusions will naturally change when you are the boss. Or else they won’t. What difference does it make? Do your thing, and I couldn’t care less if they like it.

There is nothing more attractive than the certainty, when she sees her own magnificence, all other people will see it. People who repeatedly attack her certainty and confidence are well aware of her latent ability, even if it definitely isn’t. Such countless people on the path, whatever it is you seek to do, will tell you that it is not possible. Be that as it may, all that is necessary is a creative mind.

There is only one method to stay away from analysis: remain inactive, say nothing, and be nothing. However, regardless of whether or not they appreciate us, and the basic truth is that some people will not believe that you are the bee’s knee, regardless of what you do for them or for them, for what reason do we put a great deal of weight in the discernment of others?

No matter how long you remain subject to the approval of others, the joy is fleeting. Start exposing endorsement seekers and you’ll discover people struggling with low confidence. They do not understand their value, so they seek affirmation from others. However, whatever comfort they pick up doesn’t last. Regardless of how much recognition they receive, they will soon be working for approval once again.

Unless you have been downright rude or have completely doubted that you should apologize to make amends or make proper amends, apologizing for who is restricting your activities because you fear judgment is not the way to live up to your potential.

Learning to overcome the fear of being judged is a cycle of doing. He retrains his brain not to dwell on the conclusions of others and to stop talking to himself negatively while he does so.