Lighting, sound, action: setup for great sex

Are you silently fumbling in the dark with your sex life? Although raw sex is a physical act, the sensual experience of making love together can be greatly enhanced by engaging all of your senses. Each of your five senses contributes to your mood to some degree. By setting the stage for your romantic or sexy encounter, you can create an atmosphere for loving and sensual pleasure. Soothing or exciting, the sights, sounds and scents have the power to stimulate your most powerful sexual organ: your mind. So, step out of the dark and experience sex in a whole new light.

When you watch a movie together, consider how the lighting and sound set the tone for the action. From steamy, sensual intensity to pulsing intensity, light and sound combinations can create a totally magical experience. You don’t need a big budget to produce erotically charged sex scenes. With a few ideas and a little imagination, you can easily make your lover feel like a star in your own sex game. Instead of quietly hiding in the dark, bare yourselves and creatively direct sensational sex scenes together.

ambient light

As mentioned, lighting affects our mood and therefore our maximum enjoyment of sex. The type, color, intensity and design of the light source can excite or relax with many erotic variations in between. Both men and women are visual creatures and are turned on by sexy sights. With the right light, seeing yourself in the throats of passion can be your best form of visual stimulation. Here are some mood lighting ideas:

• candles: The flickering light of even a single candle can add an enchanting mystique to any room. The candles create a soft glow that gives your body a warm glow. Dim lighting also makes the surrounding decor feel cozy and private. Stained glass chandeliers can further enhance the effect. Try one, a few, and every once in a while, go wild with dozens of candles.
• Chimney: Making love in front of a roaring fire or after burning red coals can be an enchanting and romantic experience. Even without a real one, you can recreate the sensual effect with a fireplace video and space heater.
• moon and starlight: Although it is best away from city lights, making love outdoors in the light of the stars or the moon can be an erotic adventure. Plan a special outing to coincide with the full moon.
• Sunset Sunrise: A classic of romance, sensual intimacy during a sunrise or sunset can make them even more special. Make love outdoors or in a car while enjoying the reddish tones of the sky.
• strobe light: Imagine having wild sex in a completely dark room dotted with erotic flashes frozen in your mind. The intensity of stop motion-style blinking visual stimulation can be extremely exciting. Brightly colored lingerie adds to the effect.
• Flashlight: Use a small pen light to illuminate the areas of your body that you want to stimulate. Make it a foreplay. Start with a pen or artist brush, then tap, lick, and suck. Have your lover shine the flashlight on an erogenous zone that desires your focused attention.
• rope and string lights: Use decorative LED lights to add a special touch or elegant design for special occasions. Create a heart shape on the ceiling, border a mirror, display a collection of sex toys, or design a futuristic role-playing environment.

Try different colored bulbs in regular sockets (orange, green, blue, purple, black, blinking, etc.). A shade or dimmer switch is also important. Various colors and intensities will make your bodies look different. Also try lava lamps, fiber optic lights, spotlights, glow-in-the-dark items, etc. Some lights can even be controlled with music to pulsate with different colors and intensities. Experiment with various types of lighting to enhance your mood and sexual enjoyment. Use your creativity to explore the full erotic potential of ambient light. There are so many wonderful possibilities to play.

auditory sex

Many people forget the importance of sound and the effect it has on us. Music, for example, can almost instantly trigger a mood swing. Relaxing or exciting, the music has been created to stimulate all kinds of emotions. And, a sexy voice can be very erotic. Words and sounds can convey sensuality and lust. They can arouse desire and stimulate mental images or fantasies. For some people, sensual sounds are better than explicit images. Here are some ideas for auditory stimulation:

• To say obscenities: A sensual voice can awaken fantasies with descriptive suggestions. Explore erotic words or romantic euphemisms from books or movies. If you’re a bit shy, practice with your lover on the phone while you’re away from each other. Erotic stories read aloud and whispered descriptions of your desire are good listening delights.
• sounds of passion: Both men and women enjoy lovers who make noise as an expression of their passion. “Oohs” and “Aahs” combined with some encouraging “dirty words” add to the mental excitement. Show your enthusiasm for each other with sounds of pleasure. Recorded sounds of passion or even erotic movies in the background can also be arousing.
• exotic sounds: Use CDs with recorded sounds of nature (waves, rain, thunder, a rushing river, blowing wind, etc.) to transport yourself to a fictional fantasy place. Depending on the type of fantasy or role-playing game, special sound tracks can enhance the setting.
• mood music: Depending on the kind of mood you want, try instrumental music to guide the rhythm and rhythm of your lovemaking. Relaxing and peaceful music will encourage slow and sensual touching, kissing and licking. Music with a heavy, pulsing beat will encourage intensely passionate sex. Try to find music that gently builds in intensity to help guide your bodies to a final climax.
• erotic dance: Dancing together or for your lover can be very romantic and erotic. Seductive and sensual music is ideal for seductively slow movements. Faster-paced, sexy rock/pop music is excellent for stimulating wild and passionate sexual desire. Slow dancing together naked is a very intimate, romantic and sensual activity that can be done as foreplay or after play.
• oral sex: When stimulating multiple erogenous zones, play instrumental music that starts off soft and slowly builds in intensity. Use the rhythm of the music to guide your loving attention. Consider creating your own soundtrack with several songs that are relaxing yet exciting.
• sensory change: Try to get your lover to wear a blindfold and headphones. Without being able to see or hear you, her sense of touch will be heightened. She generates erotic excitement with creative and unexpected sensations. The anticipation of each touch from her will make her entire body tingle.

Try different sources and types of sound to help explore your auditory erogenous zones. Experiment in the fine art of erotic conversation, and with practice, you will become comfortable offering your own auditory stimulation. There are books and programs available to help refine your listening skills. Expressing yourself in this way can also encourage you to have more intimate conversations and improve other aspects of your relationship.

As you can see, there are many ways to create an atmosphere for sensual pleasure and passionate sex. Mix and match the ideas and explore the full erotic potential of light and sound in your labor of love.